My Experience with Alisa G. Cummins in Maryland Family Court (2020–2022)

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A Broken System Finds Its Champions

There are some people in family law who don’t just represent their clients — they feed off the destruction.
Alisa G. Cummins of Ellicott City, Maryland, was one of those people in my case.

From 2020 to 2022, I had to face her in court while she represented my ex-wife.
It wasn’t a legal battle — it was a slow, brutal unraveling of my entire life.

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How It Began: Weaponizing Mental Health and Family Conflict

When my marriage ended, I never imagined how vicious things could get.
I never harmed my ex-wife. I never threatened her. I only wanted to remain a loving, involved father to my young son.

But once Ms. Cummins entered the case, the attacks escalated — fast.

She pushed every false accusation my ex-wife made, including maliciously targeting my ADHD and my mental health, portraying them as proof that I was somehow dangerous.
She set rigid, unreasonable demands that stirred conflict within my family — pressure that eventually exploded when I was physically attacked and hospitalized by my own brother. Yet somehow, I was the one wrongly charged with assault.

Ms. Cummins and her client immediately weaponized those charges against me, as I was fearing for my life, and even as they continued to fan the flames behind the scenes.

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What I Lost

Between 2020 and 2022, during the time Ms. Cummins was involved:

• I lost my home.
• I lost my car.
• I lost my career.
• I lost my financial stability.
• I lost my relationship with my family.
• And worst of all — I lost my ability to be a father to my young son.

Not because I was unsafe.
Not because I was unfit.
But because the system rewards those who are willing to lie, manipulate, and destroy without conscience.

And Alisa Cummins knew exactly how to work that system.

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“Just Doing Her Job” — At What Cost?

Some people excuse this behavior:
“That’s just a lawyer doing their job.”

But is “the job” really to destroy an innocent person’s life without evidence?
To sever a father’s bond with his son because it’s easier — and more profitable — than dealing in truth?

At no point did Ms. Cummins seem interested in compromise, fairness, or what was best for my child.
It was domination at any cost.
And I was the cost.

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A System That Rewards Predators, Not Protectors

Family court is broken — not just for men, not just for women — but for everyone who believes truth should matter.
Lawyers like Ms. Cummins thrive because the system isn’t built to protect families. It’s built to reward whoever can exploit it the best.

It doesn’t matter if you’re innocent.
It doesn’t matter if you love your child.
It matters who can spend more, lie better, and push harder.

I didn’t have a lawyer. I didn’t have money.
I had only the truth — and that’s not enough in today’s family court.

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Where It Left Me

Today, I’m still recovering from the damage Ms. Cummins and my ex-wife caused.
Financially. Emotionally. Spiritually.

I am still a father.
I am still fighting to heal.
But the scars are real, and they didn’t have to happen.

If you are looking for an attorney who will exploit every crack in the system to destroy the other parent — even at the expense of your child — then there are lawyers out there who will gladly take your money.

But if you still believe parenting is about love, healing, and real responsibility…
Stay far, far away from attorneys like Alisa G. Cummins.

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Final Thought

Family court doesn’t just fail families.
It destroys them — one false accusation, one scorched-earth lawyer, and one brokenhearted child at a time.

I’m still standing.
But what was taken from me — and from my son — can never be fully repaired.

And people like Alisa Cummins walk away paid, praised, and protected.
That’s not justice. That’s the cost of a broken system.

Editor’s Note

This is my story.
My experience.
No apology.
No spin.
No sugarcoating.
Just the truth the family court system refuses to hear — because it’s built to silence people like me, not protect us.

I didn’t lose my son because I was dangerous.
I lost my son because a corrupt system rewards the lawyers who are willing to destroy anyone who can’t afford to fight back.

If speaking the truth makes some people uncomfortable, so be it.
The damage is already done — the least I can do now is tell the story they tried to bury.

You’re Not Alone

If your life was torn apart by a family court system that rewarded lies, cruelty, and corruption — whether involving Alisa G. Cummins or someone like her — I want to hear your story.
We were never supposed to survive this alone.
Let’s start changing that — one truth at a time.